pursers and pursue-ees
(a relational theory)
Sunday, February 20, 2005



in the dating life, there are "pursuers" and there are "pursue-ees". a dynamic dual. each one has a specific role and you need to know where you stand. pursuers are those who call (and pursue), and pursue-ees are those that can wait for calls (the pursued). that's just the way life is. nobody says that it's fair or easy. to complicate things, pursue-ees may also take on the pursuer calling roles! these are the dangerous ones (they got game). unfortunately, pursuers will always remain pursuers. just like how a square is a rectangle, but a rectangle is not a square (pursuers are rectangles). happiness comes to those that acknowledge and accepts these rules. frustration comes to those that try to force it. here's the breakdown:

  • pursuers calling = right role, right action
  • pursuers not calling = wrong action, frustration
  • pursue-ees waiting = right role, right action
  • pursue-ees not waiting (ie. calling) = dual role, a true player


    • lesson complete. so which are you? :)

    posted by neko @ 10:22:00 AM          |

    3 Comments:

    At 12:45 AM, Blogger Cecilia said...

    Nicely put.

    This is the way that life is, I suppose. It's like sugar and spice and everything nice. Salt and pepper. Otherwise life would be bland as in food without them.

    I can't really remember which category I fall into, but I have always been taught (as a "proper young lady") to be pursued.

    Although I can't really remember ever being pursued. hmmm.

     
    At 12:07 PM, Blogger letti said...

    i've never seen a REAL road runner till i got here..we've got them on the property!

     
    At 10:42 PM, Blogger dreaming-neko said...

    i pursue, therefore i am... :)
    thank you for your thoughts!

     

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